Brandy,

i am learning more now than i ever have in the past. I never knew how much help i could get from the opinions in these forums. It feels good to have help and attempt to help others from my previous history.

now for me, i guess i start facing issues this has brought to my surface. If someone comes along that i mesh with, im not opposed, if she comes back, i assess based on the situation. I would be selfish to drag her through the same scenario a second time, if we ever meet again.