Dear XYZ:

I think that “this comparison habit” is a mental habit, an obsession- something you are in the habit of doing, used to doing it, and it is uncomfortable to stop doing it, just like any other strong habit. You have to figure out first if this is a healthy habit for you or an unhealthy habit- is it serving you or hurting you.

This obsession keeps you busy with comparing yourself to others, feeling jealous and angry as you compare, so you don’t have the mental energy for ambition, rendering you..”ambitionless”.

anita