Anita,

You’re correct, and while I do agree with where you’re coming from, I still don’t think that my boyfriend’s mom should be able to call my mom crazy. My mom’s decision to move the dinner time up had absolutely nothing to do with my boyfriend’s mom’s time. She seems to be taking it personally, as though my mom intentionally tried to sabotage her Thanksgiving. That label of “crazy” perpetuates that, and I don’t think it’s fair that my mom should be called crazy for changing a time, regardless of what I may have shared with my boyfriend about me and my mom’s relationship, and what may have gotten back to his family.  Maybe I’m just being overly sensitive, I don’t know.