Dear noname:

“about loving and not being reciprocated.. I just don’t know what to look for apparently”-

– you mean you don’t know how reciprocated love looks like, how to spot love from a woman?

If so, when you interact with a woman you are interested in, or considering being interested in her, make a small move and give her the space to make her move. You smile to her, see if she smiles back. You tell her she looks nice, see if she tells you something nice about the way you look, or that she appreciates what you just said. Hold her hand, see if she holds your hand back. Call her, see if she calls you next, and so forth. One move on your part, pause, wait for hers. No move coming from her= no interest on her part.

Happy Thanksgiving, by the way!

anita