Dear Jennie:

You shared that your current relationship is your second relationship and his first. You met him (28, now 31, “well educated, handsome”) at work, nine months later he proposed to you, and two months later you said Yes.  You’ve been in this relationship 3.5 year long, the last 1.5 years of it has been long distance. He never had sex before meeting you, and you did, in the context of your first relationship. Together, the two of you didn’t have  sex beyond kissing and touching. “he says he is keeping things for marriage”.

“I want to talk to him about this” when he visits you soon. I don’t know what it is you want to talk to him about: is it that you want to have sex with him before marriage, against his wishes to wait for marriage?

And when is the marriage going to take place, is there a planned set?

anita

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