Dear blkhwkdwn1:

September 18, 2016, three years, two months and three weeks ago, first post: “So I have this girl I’ve known for YEARS through work, she’s no longer there anymore… I have started a friendship with her for the past month.. and started really liking her even more and I dunno why? I know I’ll never be anything more than just a friend.. I will never feel worthy of her, she’s also the most amazing person I have ever met and I’m happy around her. I can’t stop smiling.. and I’ll do anything to make her happy… I’ve never met anyone like this in my 30+ years being alive”-

– fast forward, December 10, 2019: “I know what I have to do (thread title..”let her go”), I just don’t wanna do it”.

My input today: “I will never feel worthy of her”- you are worthy of her. I  know it. I also know I can’t  make you believe it.

I know you love her, the real thing, as true a love as love can be. Regardless of you letting her go or not, what all this means is that you are a loving person- this is who you are. So, even if you let her go, you are still that loving man.

I wish you didn’t have to let her go, I wish there was a way…

anita