I just don’t think this is going on much longer to track things, said it throughout the thread but she’s not single anymore and moved away and got no way of getting to her.

I dunno what I am supposed to say for being honest with her, she has a boyfriend so I don’t think I can exactly say I wanna see her more he will probably tell her to cut me off totally, no phone calls, no nothing. I can say I want you to communicate more instead of only me but that just means I am forcing her and saying she has to or else and I will look extremly needy and think if she wanted to stay in touch she would have but instead stays away staying out of touch and tells me she does message me when I “dissapear” (her words). She also told me she does not like being around her friends that much on the phone when we talked about me wanting a break from the friendship due to it being so 1 sided and me having to do everything. Not asked her if we can hang out since July, been waiting for her to ask me so I pretty much assume she’s still busy. All I know is she works and goes home after, I stopped buying the busy line a while ago and she really hates saying it she told me.

I told her it can be every 2 months we hang out, but apparently even that’s too much for her. All I want is both of us to ask eachother to hang out, both to text eachother atleast a few times a month and both to do phone calls, instead I am the only one who does it yet I have told her several times she can call anytime she wants.