Dear Gaia:

You wrote about being defined by others (others include me, I am guessing), being defined by your “anger… clumsiness, detachment, incapacity or invisibility in interpersonal settings”, and that your “interactions always follow same patterns and feelings” because of you being defined by others. Labeled is another word you used before, and placed-I-a-box is a term you used before.

You don’t like to be defined, labeled, place in a box.

Did I understand correctly, and if I did, how would you like me to interact with you differently, so that you don’t feel that i define/label/put you in a box, what would I need to do  differently?

anita