Hi Anita, haha yes it’s me again. Thank you so much for taking the time to read and reply to my rambling post (again). I found the replies from you and others so helpful last time that I decided to post again. Just to give you an update- I read your reply to this post earlier and decided to message the guy. I wouldn’t have had the courage to do it unless you’d said those things- I really would have 100% thought he wasn’t interested and had gone off me, but your post did really resonate, so I decided to risk it. And I’m happy to say he replied, I think basically he feels exactly what you said, and we are going to meet up and talk about it. Thank you so much for your help, honestly. I don’t know if it will work between us because I know I have a lot of issues, but for now at least I’m feeling much better! So thank you 🙂