Dear Nekoshema:

You are welcome. Regarding his “white knight complex and will act like a chivalrous knight”- I don’t think the image of a chivalrous knight includes flirting and making sexual comments to a woman engaged to be married (you). I suppose some of his behaviors are chivalrous, other behaviors are not.

You’ve been asking the  opinions and observations of multiple people about him (your most recent post): “my work friend.. I asked her honest opinion on our friend.. A few coworkers.. listed things they observed how he treats me… his roommate.. said he would observe our friend’s behavior”-

-because you don’t trust your own evaluation of this man, is it, which is the point I made to you in my very first reply to you in this thread.

To form your own evaluation of this  man and answer the question in the title of your thread without further input by other people, make a short and simple list of pros and cons to keeping this man as your friend. Don’t make it complicated and therefore confusing by adding to many details and angles. Instead, stick to the basics. If you want to try this basic pros and cons list here, please do.

anita