Hi Lola,

I am really sorry that happened. And I understand that you’re hurt. He invaded your private space, and seems not to care about how you feel or what you think about it. When your gut tells you something, it’s often right. I think it was really brave of you to stand up for yourself and walk their way. You have a voice too and you do matter! She might didn’t know about the two of you and she was just as surprised as you was. It’s him that needs to learn that eating from two plates isn’t the way to get Full-filled. I’ve been in your situation myself a few years ago so I know what you’re going through. He doesn’t deserve your love or your loyalty. I think you do the right thing by blocking him, even if it hurts. other wise you’re staying in this position. Don’t be afraid to never fall in love again. There are good men out there, who does know your worth and threat you the way you should be threaten. It’s gonna be hard, but you’ll manage. You did before when the two of you broke up. By the looks of it you’re capable of being rational. It’s that Mind VS Heart that sucks at times. But you’ll get over it, I know you will.

I wish you all the best, love and wisdom for the next periode that’s coming your way. Stay strong and if you want to let it al out, then do it. Or write it off your chest, we will be here to support you.

Love,

Me