Dear Tortured Soul:

I posted to you earlier before you changed your screen name. I am a member here, like you, and I can’t change the name I addressed you as in my first post to you. You can contact the owner of the site (“contact” above) for any concerns you have regarding anonymity. I imagine the chances someone who knows your name will read the forums here and will identify you are extremely slim.

I read just a  bit of your recent post and will read and reply when I am back to the computer within a few hours from now.

anita