Hi Anita,

My mom actually invited him over for NYE. I let him know. On NYE day she was sloppy drinking very early and so me and my brother decided to change plans. I decided I would go with my brother to his girlfriends family house. I mentioned this to my beau, and he got upset thinking I was avoiding the idea of him meeting my mom which I wasn’t. I didn’t want her to be belligerent around him for his first time meeting her, so I offered the alternative of him coming w me to my brothers gf house and he got upset. Following that conversation, he got mad that I didn’t come pick him up from work. I too was snappy with him about him bringing it up. I believe this catalyzed the whole issue.

update: we spoke today. I asked is it was a good time to talk? No pressure. He asked what was up and I said I was wondering that, then he asked me to leave him alone. I said I only asked because in prior conversation he said he would speak to me later but we didn’t, so I wasn’t sure if we were speaking or if I needed to get my things. He said he would pack my things for me, and he did