Dear Helena:

Following first reading of your post, your husband seems selfish and unreasonable, throwing temper tantrums, and feeling entitled to throw them and hurt people.

I want to re-read your post later and will be able to do so when I return to the computer in a few hours. Maybe you can answer the following so that I can understand better:

He feels betrayed, that’s his repeat complaint. Can you define what he means by having been betrayed by you, by completing a sentence such as this, using first person: I feel betrayed because my wife did….

anita