Dear Connie:

I am sorry things are better between you and him. The relationship has been troubled from the beginning, hasn’t it, and you tried hard all through, you are still trying. “I am not sure about what to do and how to make things better”, you wrote.

Maybe you should stop trying so hard, maybe if you stop saying and doing so much for him and for the relationship, maybe, just maybe he will rise to the occasion and try harder himself to make things better.

(I will be away from the computer for a while).

anita