Dear Felix:

I think that it’s fine that you approach any single/ available woman you want to approach, just don’t get desperate, that is all. As is, you don’t have a girlfriend. If you approach a woman and she rejects you, then you still don’t have a girlfriend, same situation as before. In other words, when you approach a woman and get rejected, your situation is not worse, it is just as it was before, the same situation.

So, thinking realistically, there is nothing for  you to lose if you approach any woman you want to approach. But be cool about it. Say to yourself: if she rejects me, no harm done, I was single before, and I am still single.

If a woman responds positively to you, don’t get too excited, remain cool best you can, and go to the next step, one small step at a time.

Regarding what your parents told you regarding women, money and height, clearly the totality of what they told you didn’t serve you well, didn’t lead you to find a girlfriend. So I wouldn’t consider what they told you or tell you still regarding finding a girlfriend.

I hope to read from you soon, before or after you approach a woman (same height or shorter, doesn’t matter to me).

anita