Hi Rocketgirl,

Everyone has emotions.  When someone does not express their emotions, they go inwards and begin to cause problems such as depression.  Encourage your boyfriend to talk as much as he can – you’ll be able to tell through his voice whether he is happy, joyful and loving which is fine.  When you pick up those other vibes, just say so.  If you are sensing sadness or anger, say so.

Also, if you talk about your own emotions, he will receive the cue from you that it is OK to express yourself (himself) in that way.

It may take a while before he trusts you enough to open up, but if you care for him enough, you’ll be able to stay the course.

Good Luck

Peggy