Little update:

We basically ended up heading to my place, we picked up some food in the city and went home and basically spent the night talking and playing games with him talking with my dad from time to time, (they’re both into football and my dad was watching a match), he left after around 6 hours and we talked about meeting up again which we did 2 days ago with me initiating the date since he had talking about wanting to watch the new star wars movie, we met there since he had to drop off his daughter and he drove me home afterwards despite me saying he could drop me off at the train station in the city he live (it’s 15 mins from mine) but insisted since he wanted to make sure I arrived home safely, when we were saying bye he basically got out of the car and we would stand outside talking for 15 mins or so with him coming over to me hugging me twice for several minutes and then asking when we could meet again and to let him know if I started to feel awkward for hugging that long since he was enjoying it.

I basically suggested february (Indoor gokart arena opens there) since his birthday is next weekend so figured he’d be busy but said he wanted to meet up before and jokingly asked if I had a lot of other guys so I would be busy meeting them, (didn’t respond to this) basically said that we should  figure something out and I would love to meet him again. He messaged me around 20 mins later after he got home hinting that he had hoped we  had kissed but that both of us had been too shy to initiate that and said he couldnt wait for us to meet again..

Now my question is.. It’s saturday now, but haven’t really heard from him, I went to a concert last night so was busy and he is going out tonight, so makes sense. But I guess I am wondering if I should now let him initiate the next meetup/fourth date since I did it with the last one and feel a bit worried about coming off to strong if he turns out not to be interested.