hi Inky,

The more I think about my daughter’s upcoming wedding I am realizing:
(1) my side of family is surgically kept out of critical rituals.
(2) Kids are overwhelmingly influenced and acting according to wish of their mother and her side of family.
(3) kids and their mother are cherry picking items/events that they want their way.
(4) my side of family will be just spectators at the wedding nothing else.
(5) It would be then expressed that I ” the father” did not get involved.
(6) Kids mother who is a culprit presents herself as a victim.