Dear Gustavo:

Reads to me that the two of you are honest, decent people. You did all you could to suggest to her that a  boyfriend/ girlfriend relationship between the two of you is a good idea. There is nothing more for you to say or do (beyond maybe telling her that if she changes her  mind, to let you know).

I think that the right thing for you and her to do at this point, is to no longer talk or go out together. Like she said, it wouldn’t be fair to you.

If I was you, I wouldn’t contact her at all and I will not seek her company. If you happen to see her in a group setting, with your common friends, or if you randomly see her on the street, in a store and the like, act friendly, but not overly friendly, not hoping/ trying again kind of friendly.

If you reach out to her at this point, it is likely to feel on her end like pressure and she will move away from you even farther. If you behave casually friendly with her when you randomly, or accidently see her, that may relax her.

anita