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Dear E bugs,
I have to side with Anita here. It reads to me she wanted a peaceful breakup but was also emotional because you were a part of her life and I think she has a good feeling in her heart of your time together. But other than that, I dont think she will be coming back. Not for the right reasons to be exact. Yeah, she is really young, she might get cold feet, or get lonely, or really miss you, or see the grass ain
t greener either, but those reasons are all bad to reconnect with a person. And you shouldn`t aim for so little.
Im sure she had her reasons to break it up, but again, the excuse of a busy life etc is bs to me, I
m sorry to tell you that. How many times do we feel the need to push are loved ones away when we are going through rough times? On the contrary, its support we crave the most. So I doubt that
s the real reason and you know that too. Especially since your relationship was fine and in good standing. It makes no sense. But we do have to entertain the possibility of her friend to have putten words in her mind about you and cause her to doubt your future together. She may have cut it out of fear and out of the false certainty you were going to break her heart. If that is true, again, it`s for the best you split up. You need a person mature enough to make their own decisions and not be so easily swayed by others or be so insecure.
I wouldnt wait for anyone at this point in my life. And I would advise you the same. 7+ billion people, wait for what? For who? It
s trully romantic to think about all the movies of soulmates reuniting but not in the real world…