Hi Peter,

Thank you for your recommendation, I will try to look for the book. What is troubling me is often when I cannot differentiate between my “burden” of the past or just simply actions that I should not tolerate. Looking back, I had often being taken for granted because I tend to give the benefit of doubt to my partner in the past and it just leads to a long but probably unhappy relationship on my part. I like to think myself as understanding most of the time, but what I observe is understanding girls like me are often the one being taken for granted and I just feel so tired of the whole situation and finding someone who could appreciate this.

bell