Thank you for the insight and advice, Valora. It is my first serious relationship, and I am learning a lot. I do see your point with the ego, that was my mentality (I guess I did want to be the only person who he is attracted to). When I do think about it objectively and try to decrease my personal bias, it does make sense. I think we have both learned a lot from this, too. He does say that loyalty and honesty are the things he values the most, and his actions clearly show that.

Thank you both sincerely for your wisdom and guidance. I would love to continue chatting if you’d like to, as this is granting me lots of insight. If there’s anything else you would like to ask or add, please don’t hesitate to do so 🙂

Sincerely,

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