Dear Liana:

Thank you for wishing everyone to “stay warm and safe from the virus”, I wish you the same.

You wrote: “what I should do is either cut it cold turkey as I somewhat tried already, phase it out as I somewhat tried already, or somehow through my bleeding heart accept that this is what it is”-

– what about a third option: send him a message telling him what you told here. You can probably summarize it into a couple of paragraph, half a page. And see what he writes back to you. Isn’t it a fourth option?

anita