Dear Anna:

Regarding the beginning relationship with the other girl, he denied it at first: “he was always denying.. and lying. Then he confessed and said she was only sex… He said that he never… He said that he remembered… He said that he wants to end up… he said no I don’t communicate with her. But he was lying. He called me.. to tell me that he was crying… he says he is not.. He says that she is not.. He says he imagines his future… He says all this”-

You wrote yourself that he was always denying what is true and that he lied to you (I boldfaced it above). Doesn’t it means that anything of what he said, told and confessed to you may be a lie…

I counted TEN  “he said” and “said” (italicized above)-  what if what he said and said and said.. and confessed and told.. and said and said and said to you.. was not true…

What I am saying is that before you conclude that you are not worthy because he chose her, and that she is more worthy than you because he chose her, think: is he a man who is worthy to determine your worth, and her worth in comparison to you?

Maybe he is good looking, but he lies and he thinks it is okay to use a woman for sex (he “said she was only sex), so he is not a wonderful person, is he.

Do you think it’s okay to lie so much and use a woman for sex?

anita