Dear CB:

More questions, if I may:

1. When the two of you did “say hurtful things that you probably don’t mean”- what hurtful things did you say to him and what hurtful things did he say  to you?

2. When he did “say he’s not a very nice person and he doesn’t deserve”- did he ever tell you in what ways he is not a nice person?

3. What were his relationships with his mother like, and with his father- how did he behave around them, did he like them, or not.. did you like his parents more than he liked them?

anita