Hope all you ladies are doing ok I read your threads and think how brave you all are    I take a great deal comfort reading them     I’m really struggling to come to terms with my split its been 3 months and I still can’t quite believe he left me. for 27 years I’ve devoted myself to him and his family and now that’s all gone   this week we agreed financial terms on our family home   I can not believe it’s only taken him 12 weeks to moved out move on and sell the family home   that’s it were don’t no need further contsc   this week mother in law in hospital very unwell won’t be coming home we can’t visit. I reached out to ex and family I love this women like my own mum   well nothing didn’t even text back. I’m devastated and feel so alone