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  • #353320
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    Well last few weeks have been very difficult we had my ex mum in law funeral was first time is seen ex family since he walked out for that day only it was like we were all a family again and I was there emotionally for my ex and for the days after

    Well this week all paperwork agreed and I’ve brought our family home from him and it’s all over

    27 years all given up on 4 months I was still prepared to talk and listen and try resolve our problems but ex was not

    we said he still loves me but need some time in hi own to live alone have the space to himself he says it’s not about being with someone new it’s about finding himself as we’re have been together for a long time it’s the only relationship he’s known

    I’m as heartbroken today as day he left for me I could see us growing old together and doing things together text I our life

    But I have control now I need accept its the England I need to move on      I’m so sad and broken

     

     

     

     

    #350468
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    For me heartbroken a my state I feel I like I miss this man with all my being I miss him being home.  Chatting. And just chilling I miss him checking in on me I miss my family unit 3 of us  these feeling are what makes me feel heartbroken

    I feel so sad it hurts I cry and can sleep.   Can’t say and my mind is all consumed with him. What’s he doing. Sphere genus. Who’s he talking too.

    It’s overwhelming

    #350290
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    Thanks Anita yes I’m going to. 1 and 2 I’m there   3 after mum in law funeral decided to have no contact unless about our son 4 I have a counsellor and she’s showing me some mindfulness tecniquics 5 need be careful due back injury but I have started Pilates and will continue after lockdown

    6 is very hard I have no regrets my 27 years was mostly good and I have my wonderful son  I’m just finding hard to accept its over I love this man so much but he’s moved on so must I   feels like I’m giving up on him   but I guess he gave up on me

    7 after lockdown will try

    I’m determined to think positive and try and start living my best life

    #350216
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    I don’t want a penny of it they are welcome to it won’t bring them happiness

    I need concentrate on being kind to myself just not sure how to do that right now

    #350100
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    Not 100% my son will benefit we will see

    Yes your correct the family were happy for me to be legal guardian for both mum and dad until now when an inheritance comes in its all seams to change

    No I don’t believe is living together was an issue we have a son I feel that was more of an commitment than anything

    Me ex and both sister’s are not married all live with partners

    #350060
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    True my son my benefit who knows I’ve been frozen out

    As mum in law has dementia I became her legal guardian as she had dementia and I did all her banking paperwork she had no will so the family needed all information to deal with her estate

    For last 10 years I’ve done it all they were happy for mr  too now they want me off and not able see if do anything as me and ex are separated they way they talk to me see me has changed them towards me

    This devesate s me I loved them all and did everything for them what a difference  few months can make

    #349908
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    My son is finding life hard Lockdown hard as missing his Dad and lost his Nan     I hope he sees me as a positive role model but I’m finding life very hard I feel the way I have treated is disgusting and this family I loved and did so much for have changed so much towards me    in heartbroken

    I don’t know where to start rebuilding

    Money has changed this family so worried I might want a claim on mum in laws inheritance   omg really there welcome it all won’t make them happy

    #349518
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    I’m feeling emotional pain in a physical manor I’ve never experienced this before it’s overwhelming and I’m struggling to understand it and deal with it

    Each day in trying to get into a new routine on my own and not need the validation of others that I’m used too

    If just like to be comfortable with my own company and to find my own self worth

    I’m so sad it hurts and I need that to stop its such a negative feeling and I know I worth so much more

    #349380
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    Anita  really hope that’s true. I’m struggling with the impact of 3 big things   breakup. Passing of mum in law and lockdown

    It’s all so overwhelming and I’m finding hard to find the strength to pick myself up and look to the future

    I truly feel in physical pain nothing like I’ve every felt before in my life

     

     

    #349234
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    Julia thanks for you comments  agree it’s never easy tinned someone that’s lasted 27 years     I’m just struggling with the last of respect he has shown. To tell me one day and leave the next is so wrong. Talk and show me some respect and if your still in that place in then ok

    It’s like I was living with a man on day and someone I don’t recognise the next how did I not see it coming

    Anita I’ve tried to give myself jobs each day keep busy and somewhere time to move mindful and I’m writhing a journal

    I just Sean to have lost myself not sure I’ve ever know who I am

    #349174
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    I’m trying so hard to be positive and be mindful and kind to myself   just last few day including today  I feel hurt and overwhelmed regarding the events of our breakup ex Mum passing and the inheritance.  It’s all too much

    I really don’t deserve these events to have taken place

    #349172
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    I’m trying so hard to be positive and be mindful and kind to myself   just last few day including today  I feel hurt and overwhelmed regarding the events of our breakup ex Mum passing and the inheritance.  It’s all too much

    I really don’t deserve these events to have taken place

    #349108
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    I really have been trying too. But I feel overwhelm ed by it all I have a feeling of being crushed by my emotions and can’t see how I’m going to move forward   but tomorrow another day

    #349048
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    Weather lovely here but I am hiding out at home can’t face anything at moment it’s become too over overwhelming my son has  been going on walks with ex and he’s ok and planning his new life in finding that hard to take and he will never understand the struggles I had running out family home when we were struggling for money I juggled everything and kept us going    I can’t see how I’m ever going to rebuild

    #349022
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    She didn’t have a will as she had dementia so her estate went equal to her 3 kids

    She was so good to me and loved me as for he son my ex well what can I say I don’t understand it recognise the man he is today

    In the years we were together he was never money orientated he has changed to become unrecognizable

    It completely breaks my heart

     

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