Well last few weeks have been very difficult we had my ex mum in law funeral was first time is seen ex family since he walked out for that day only it was like we were all a family again and I was there emotionally for my ex and for the days after
Well this week all paperwork agreed and I’ve brought our family home from him and it’s all over
27 years all given up on 4 months I was still prepared to talk and listen and try resolve our problems but ex was not
we said he still loves me but need some time in hi own to live alone have the space to himself he says it’s not about being with someone new it’s about finding himself as we’re have been together for a long time it’s the only relationship he’s known
I’m as heartbroken today as day he left for me I could see us growing old together and doing things together text I our life
But I have control now I need accept its the England I need to move on I’m so sad and broken
It’s a good thing that you own your home now and that all the paper work is done (“I’ve bought our family home from him and it’s all over”).
“it was like we were all a family again and I was there emotionally for my ex and for the days after”- I wonder if you can have more family time with the members of your ex’s family in the days, months and years to come because you expressed that you liked his family before. Separating from your ex does not have to mean not having his family in your life anymore.