Dear Star:

To understand your relationship better, I ask:

1. “I’ve been the main person pointing out things that haven’t been working for ME”- what are the things that you pointed out to him, other than him giving you the silent treatment/ disappearing when conflicts arise?

2. “after weeks of trying to get them to understand the way I feel and getting replies that sound like they have lost hope in this relationship..”- what did you communicate/ say to him during these weeks, and what did he say back?

anita