Dear lannawannabe:

It takes a whole lot of work, persistence, and patience to learn how to live better, how to choose better.

It is important to be able to evaluate the people in our lives, and the people who want access to our lives, so to figure out if they are good for us or not (“This doesn’t necessarily make them a bad person… but it does mean they are not people that are good for me”).

It is also very important to know what we value in life, and therefore what it is that we want, so to have a better chance of getting what (and who) we need in our lives.

anita