@ Anita

I think we all react differently based on our experiences, needs, and values. I grew up with hippieish parents who preached compassion and always putting yourself in someone else’s shoes and I still apply this to my life simply because it helps me process things. Truth be told, forgiveness was a major weak point for me, until the day I realized that the only person I am harming by not forgiving is actually myself. This quote by T.D. Jakes resonates with me :” I think the first step is to understand that forgiveness does not exonerate the perpetrator. Forgiveness liberates the victim. It’s a gift you give yourself.”  When I think of it this way, it becomes a much easier thing to do and I feel a weight lifted off of my shoulders immediately 🙂