Dear blkhwkdwn1:

I think that I understand better. When you saw her last in the store, she immediately had  a big smile when she saw you, that was genuine, she genuinely likes you. It’s not that she doesn’t initiate contact with you because she doesn’t like you, or because you are not meaningful to her. What it is, I think, is that she gets busy with whatever she’s doing and if she expects a task to be difficult in any way, she avoids it or postpones it.

Maybe she thinks that if she calls you, you will in some way complain that she didn’t call earlier, or something like that, and she figures: I’ll call later, later.

anita