Hi.Anita.i.think.his.problem.lies.with. thinking he is not adequate enough. Both physically or sexually although he bragged plenty if times how he couldnt take his hands off his ex girlfriend.it was a while ago.but knowing that makes me feel even worse

About 2years ago we attended a raffle that night while we were laying   talking in bed  a text came in on his phone it was her asking .so did you win??.i went off..i dont understand why she needs to be involved in our lives..he then promised he would not talk to her again. Las. month i found out he texted her .when i confronted him he told me he wishes her happy birthday once a year every year..I felt so angry because he promised he would not contact again.i told him why do we need to have a 3rd person involved.he answered me by saying.il tell her I cant talk to her anymore that told me he wants still be part of her life

.he did go see a doctor and had his testastorone level checked.i saw the results and it turns out it is llow.he started using testastorone replacement therapy.however.being he suffers from high blood pressure that had to stop.he says he wants to see a shrink cause it’s his problem but has not done it yet..I want to go talk to one to figure out what I should do..we are both in our early 60’s..

.I.truly am so confused on what I should do.we get along great in every respect but the the sexual part.just not happening.

thank you