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  • #349734
    Cali21
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    Thank you Anita

    I do believe he needs to resolve his inferiority issues.he might benefit from therapy, as per our future wedding.i.don’t.feel.that would be a good idea..just not sure I could live with just  a companion .maybe in 20 years I will see it differently.life is ment to be lived to the fullest.cause it’s way too short..thanks for the advice and making me see the situation in a sifferent liggt..be safe

    #349724
    Cali21
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    Anita

    I never have discussed his inadequacy with him in the beginning I was very confused as to why he would shy away from engaging in intercourse.his answers varied from I felt different inside to him to his hip hurt to his back hurt..when on occasion we actually had intercourse it was me who did all the work.and once he even was surprised we were actually doing it. So no I never bluntly or otherwise made him feel less of a man.he is convinced he is not enough for me and it’s taking over his life.

     

    #349720
    Cali21
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    Hi.Anita.i.think.his.problem.lies.with. thinking he is not adequate enough. Both physically or sexually although he bragged plenty if times how he couldnt take his hands off his ex girlfriend.it was a while ago.but knowing that makes me feel even worse

    About 2years ago we attended a raffle that night while we were laying   talking in bed  a text came in on his phone it was her asking .so did you win??.i went off..i dont understand why she needs to be involved in our lives..he then promised he would not talk to her again. Las. month i found out he texted her .when i confronted him he told me he wishes her happy birthday once a year every year..I felt so angry because he promised he would not contact again.i told him why do we need to have a 3rd person involved.he answered me by saying.il tell her I cant talk to her anymore that told me he wants still be part of her life

    .he did go see a doctor and had his testastorone level checked.i saw the results and it turns out it is llow.he started using testastorone replacement therapy.however.being he suffers from high blood pressure that had to stop.he says he wants to see a shrink cause it’s his problem but has not done it yet..I want to go talk to one to figure out what I should do..we are both in our early 60’s..

    .I.truly am so confused on what I should do.we get along great in every respect but the the sexual part.just not happening.

    thank you

     

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