Hello Anita!

It is good to hear from you. Indeed I do agree with you, it is important to know someone before becoming physically intimate. In this case, I did known him for a year before starting our relationship, but I do think I ignored and minimized some problems, as I really did believe that things will (somehow) get better. I think now maybe also actively observing should be on my list from now on. Thinking about it, I think now it is also important to set boundaries.

I do form strong emotional attachment to men quickly, and get back from it very slow. I am going to try stay in contact with reality, and not in my imagination. Thank you for your reply, it is good to put once again these things ”on paper”.