Dear Felix:

“Why am I always too shy”- because you are afraid of being rejected.

“how do I fix this”?- you can’t fix fear. But you can do what is right for you even though you feel fear.

What is right for you in this case: to message this girl, keep your message friendly but not overly friendly, and keep  it short, inviting her to respond to something that you wrote to her.

If she answers- repeat with a short, friendly message, in which you invite her to respond to something you wrote.

If she doesn’t answer-you are in no different situation than before you messaged her. No loss to you. The gain is that you took some action, and that will build your courage.

anita

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