Yes some parents or sometimes even the prospective groom is adamant about the kundli matching.

“And to me this is very wrong.”

I suggest you to NOT hold this kind of belief system. Because, it can happen again in a marriage situation or in some other situation. I’m saying about the fact that if something did not happen as per my beliefs then what the other person did is wrong. If you do not break this belief system then another situation would come to do exactly that.

It requires deep compassion and understanding to break that belief.

Meaning – everyone is always right from their level of consciousness. Meaning – if you had the same kind of thoughts, feelings, emotions, upbringing, life situations, parents as those parents then probably you would have done the same. Its a long complicated thing.

“Trust me I have tried my very best to convince them or even him to at least listen and try find out a solution but they didn’t even give me a chance to explain myself.” 

This itself is a proof that you both are not destined together.

“I begged him almost everyday for two months”

I’m sure you know that true love does not require begging.

Do move on, if you are able to. And if not then please do post here and the forum is always able to assist.

tc.

• This reply was modified 4 years, 7 months ago by Ravi.