Hi Cass,

I don’t know if you’ll come back to this, but a new voice here.

This pandemic is showing people who they really are. Now you know this guy does not do well in a crisis. Do you really want a hot house flower or do you want someone flexible, and resilient, with a good sense of humor? Sure, he could be depressed, but that is often an excuse. He could get help, or get off the pot. He chose to get off the pot and end it. OK, well, now he has this black dog depression to deal with without your help. None too bright, either.

You are only twenty-one. I know you feel eons old. But listen, they don’t let you die young anymore. These years are the time for you to study, travel, have fun and do whatever the heck you want to! When you’re ready, say at the ripe old age of twenty-four, take a note from the movie and go on 100 Dates! There should be one in the mix that would be exquisitely perfect for you, even in a pandemic.

Best,

Inky

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