Dear gamer:

“Yesterday we fought back and forth for hours.. We’ve had fights in the past (as all couples do).. We’ve had fights before and we worked through it together.. I just don’t know what to do”-

– first thing to do is stop the fighting. You fought too much, too often, for too long. And all along it was possible for you, as it is with every couple, to not fight. So don’t fight anymore.

If you find yourself starting a fight with him, take a time out and calm yourself down. Contact him again when you are calm.

“he says that he believes we are always at odds against each other.. things keep repeating from the past”- don’t bring up things from the past anymore. And don’t be at odds with him. Your relationship is supposed to be a love relationship, not a war relationship. You are supposed to be there for each other, not against each other.

anita