Dear gamer:

That’s a pleasing update for me to read.

“What does he mean saying…”?- ask him and listen attentively to his answer. If you don’t understand his answer, ask him to explain a bit more. You can share his answer with me if you want.

“Would it ruin things if I see him and give him his present?”-same answer: ask him. Tell him you got him a present and you would like to give it to him, but only if he  is  okay with it.

Don’t follow what the friend you talked to  on the phone told you (to meet him in person because she thinks it’s the right thing to do), ask your boyfriend if he wants to meet  in person.

Your relationship with him is between two people: you and him, so it is two  people who need to be okay with whatever goes on in the relationship. Your friends, and other people don’t get a say in what happens.

Ask him how he feels about meeting you on his birthday and give him the gifts, ask him if he is okay with it. If is it okay with him and it is okay with you, see him and give him the gifts.

anita