Hi Marcos,

The way you feel at age 42 is not uncommon and many couples divorce as a result. Some are happier; some wish they had fought for their marriage. I like Anita’s list of questions and will add one more if I could: There’s a good chance that after a divorce your ex-wife will find a new partner to share her life with. Are you comfortable with your kids living full- or part-time with someone who may become a father figure to them with his own set of values that may be very different from your own?

B