Dear Meera:

“I.. always expected the world to be honest, loving and beautiful.. I have been an angry bird mostly. He made several complaints of my anger issues.. year after year I realized that I cannot hurt him always and he will forgive”-

– if you mistreated this man when angry (ex., yelled at him, called him names), you were not at all “honest, loving and beautiful” that you expected the world to be, were you?

“I started working on my anger issues.. I think I have controlled my anger to a great level.. He says that I have changed a little bit.. after living with him, my anger will also get reduced”-

– I think that you should make sure that you don’t mistreat him when you feel angry. Make sure that you are able to control your behavior when angry before you live with him (if you do), not after.

* I didn’t understand this part: “We had a fight after 4 years of relationship in which I got slaps several times”- who slapped who???

anita