Dear Dan:

Regarding your boyfriend living with you and having nowhere to go if you break up with him:  is he not working and unable to pay rent elsewhere, if you broke up with him?

Another thing, you mentioned that you grew up without a mother and with an emotionally unavailable father: will you elaborate on that, share about your childhood experience? If you do, it will help me understand you better and maybe I will be able to offer you some helpful thoughts.

anita