Dear max85:

I just discovered your thread, otherwise I would have replied to you earlier. You are married with two children. The marriage was arranged and took place eight years ago. Your wife’s parents lied to your parents and you regarding their daughter’s age, claiming she was younger than she was. I am not clear about a few things:

1. “we lived with parents at my home”- her parents or your parents?

2. “they took me to police station with a wrong complaint on me that my parents are asking for money and harassing her (even when we are living separate)”- who took you to a police station, her parents or your wife? The complaint was that your parents were harassing your wife or her mother (“harassing her”)? Who was living separate from whom, your parents from her parents (we are living separate”)?

3. “I decided to move away from India and now in usa living away from everyone. Now we have 2 kids with me”- are you now living with your wife and with your two children, while her parents and your parents are in India?

My comment based on the following, that I assume you wrote regarding your wife: “she says I am useless..the arguments we are having…  she is making me less in front of the kids”- it is bad for your kids to witness their parents arguing and to witness their mother talking badly about their father. If the arguments do not stop and her talking badly about you in front of the children doesn’t stop, then it is better for the children that you separate from their mother and see to it that they live in a peaceful home with respect and no arguments.

anita