Hi – i found some great articles and advice in this group. I want to tell about my relationship and life. need your thoughts ..

this is 8th year into marriage with 2 kids. we are indian couple married in year 2012. ours is marriage decided by parents and i realized the girl parents have cheated us. girl is 2 years elder to me . we had issues from day 1 of marriage on how their parents behaved and obviously i lost the trust when i realized they told the age of the girl wrong.

we lived with parents at my home and its been constant struggle on every small thing. i want to cut it short and tell you , faced so many issues but i want to continue the relation and decided to move on forgetting everything thats done and said. there was even a situation where they took me to police station with a wrong complaint on me that my parents are asking for money and harrasing her (even when we are living seperate.) i decided to move away from india and now in usa living away from everyone.

Now , we have 2 kids with me doing a good job and settled in life. and we have home in usa. my situation now is i am very unhappy in life. i am feeling i would have ended this long back when i knew she is not right for me.

after doing everything to keep this relation – working hard for family. she says i am useless and dont trust me in life or with kids. i am continuing this relation for kids but in recent times the arguments we are having i understood no matter what i do, i wont be credited for that and infact she is making me less infront of kids.  i have a lot to tell but –

now i am in a state where i am feeling atleast for kids i should leave this relation and have some legal advice on how i can take care of kids and grow them properly. i need your advice and guidance.

thank you.