Dear anita,

After reading my original post, I can see what you mean by saying that the main problem is not really about my bpd … but I can’t deny that it affects my ability to trust people.

I know you are right to be concerned about third party intervention in this, but the incident with the pills was real, he spent the night in the emergency room and his mother called me when they were already there, she didn’t know about our breakup and as he was unconscious, she thought I would be worried if I called or texted him and he didn’t respond …

I’m not trying to justify anything, but I know that like me, my bf also suffers from a condition that affects his mental health and nervous system.