Dear Barbu:

I would say that accepting a person’s friend request = an open door. Reads like you are emotionally invested in her story, not wanting her to have a door open for him. I wonder if she complained to you about him in the past and you got angry at him along with her, and now .. seems like she will be getting back with him leaving you behind, angry at him all alone.

If this is the case, it is a common case, and it is a shame because friendships sour when it happens.

anita