Dear Barbu:

I am trying to figure out what exactly you are worried about, regarding your friend and her ex boyfriend who might be her boyfriend again. I figure that if she was very hurt and in a very bad shape after he ghosted her the first time, then I assume you don’t want to  see her hurt like that again. But if she was sad but okay after he ghosted her the first time, maybe she’ll be okay if it happens again.

You wrote that after he ghosted her, “for months she wasn’t the same”- what do you mean by her not being the same.. and is she back to being the same now?

anita