Dear Barbu:

“He hasn’t been in touch with her since”- maybe he will stay away from your friend. Just like your friend found another guy after the previous and went on a trip  together with the new guy, it is possible that her ex boyfriend (the guy you don’t want back into her life), has a new interest in his life, someone new that he is now involved with.

You feel very strongly about your friend and about this very troubling idea to you, that she may go back to him. I wonder if this is something that keeps you awake at nights or troubles you a lot otherwise, kind of taking over your life. Is  this the case?

anita